Stigma: A Family Tradition, Part Two
I got so excited writing my last post that I forgot to mention the “family tradition” part! So here it is, in all its sad gory. Yes, that’s what I wrote: sad gory. Let’s start with the unfortunate...
View ArticleThe King and Queen of Denial
Today started out like any Wednesday, taking care of my 89-year-old father so my 87-year-old mother could get out of the house for the afternoon. Dad was a little “off” today: he wasn’t happy with his...
View ArticleTwo Hebrew Kings Blog For Mental Health
I lived in Seattle for a time, and was crazy as a bed bug (ugh! bed bugs!) due to indiscretions in several arenas of my life and untreated bipolar disorder. Fortunately, I found a wonderful...
View ArticleAnd Here Goes The Other One…What Will I Do?
As my regular readers know, life with my mom has always been far from pleasant. And now….Dementia Case #2. I had suspected it, even before I left Jerusalem in 2011 (January 11, 2011, to be exact) to...
View ArticleWhich Disaster Will You Be Having Today, Ma’am?
It’s hard to know where to start. When I last posted, I believe my dad was already in the nursing home, ostensibly for rehabilitation after a fall. Medicare pays for 100 days of rehab, and then if...
View ArticleThe Dinner Guest
I went to a dinner party at my parents’ house tonight. I wasn’t invited. Only big deal art collectors and a big deal artist were invited. My parents live one minute away from my rude yet adequate...
View ArticleJust a Hunch
I take care of Dad on Mondays and Wednesdays, from 11:30 till 5. I give him lunch. He always has something good in mind for me to construct for him (like sardines, ugh). It makes my heart full to do...
View ArticleClose Encounter With The Mind Of A Narcissist
Dearest Readers, those of you who have been with me for some time are aware that I am an ACoN, which stands for Adult Child of a Narcissist. The Narcissist in my life is my mother. I have never...
View ArticleA Coupla Bummers and A Miracle
Well, it was Thanksgiving in America, again. A friend of mine calls it Shabbos Hodu. (“Shabbos” is the Eastern European version of the Hebrew word “Shabbat,” or Sabbath). “Hodu” is the Hebrew word...
View ArticleBad Mother
So. I talked to The Entitled Brat, I mean my son, today. It came out that what he wants is A Real Mother, one that he can visit and smell cookies baking as he steps onto the welcoming front porch. A...
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